Jack Wheeler

When we moved from our townhome in RSM to Wagon Wheel, we promised our son, Leonard, that with a yard we would get a dog. Leonard brought us Josie, our German Shepherd and we were so happy! My husband, Craig, said it wasn't fair to have just one dog, that she needed company. A few days later, I got a call from Craig and Leonard. They were at the Irvine Shelter and the Shelter wouldn't let them have the pet without everyone meeting the new family member. I couldn't believe we were getting another dog! One was enough! NO I said, but Craig insisted.

The first time I ever saw his face, I immediately said "he looks like a Jack", and my husband said "well then that is his name". Craig said they "interviewed" about 7 dogs before Jack and none of them got along too well with Josie. She was only 3 months old and they were either too rough, or not interested. THEN...the shelter brought out Jack...their eyes locked, tails wagged, and Jack went running towards her and they chased each other and were so happy! Jack useto drag Josie around, but as soon as she was 6 months she was bigger than him and weighing in at 93 lbs versus Jack's 55 lbs.

Jack was abused and reluctant at first, but with lots of love he blossomed with us. My husband said "dogs live outside". I said "please can they just come in one room? He said "yes, just downstairs in the living room, that's it", but not upstairs and definitely not on ANY of the furniture. As I was laying down on the couch one day taking a nap, Jack lightly jumped up on me...I said "NO NO NO", but he snuggled his head onto my chest, and laid his body on top of mine, and I MELTED. Jack was great at cuddling on demand.

My Doggies' DayCare called him Happy Jack because when you met him, he just made you happy. He had these soulful eyes that truly said "I love you", he would cuddle up to our friends and family. Jack and Josie complimented each other.

It happened so suddenly. We useto say Jack would outlive us all. He loved human FOOD and had a cast iron stomache, unlike Josie who is more sensitive. He was affectionate, didn't require a lot of exercise, loved to lay around, nap, sleep, eat, cuddle and just be with us. He was such a soothing and loving companion.

Then just one day he stopped eating, I thought he had the flu, but the next day I could tell he was not his Happy self. I took him to the VET, who also thought it was nothing to worry about, but the next morning they called and said we had to bring him in ASAP - this was on a Saturday morning.

His kidney values were too high and they treated him for a kidney infection. Over the weekend he just got worse and on Monday AM they told us we had to think about letting him go. WHAT? We were not prepared to let him go.

I was blessed to be with a wonderful boss, and a beautiful friend when I got the news. We were in a meeting, but they quickly said "let's get you home". This was at 11AM. I picked up Josie and drove to the VET to meet my husband and Jack. Family Member VET in Mission Viejo, gave us a room to spend time with our baby boy and we cried for several hours, just petting him and loving him. Our son, Leonard, came to the VET to also say goodbye to Jack.

At 3:40 PM we said "okay" it's time, but is it every really time to let your baby go? Dr. Link came in and explained the process. We made him comfortable, and after a saline shot, a sedative, another saline shot, and the fatal injection, Jack fell asleep within minutes. He looked peaceful and loved. We held his head, and kissed him several times. Josie, the german shephard, came over to him and sniffed him, then wimpered and Jack was gone.

I know we will see you at the Rainbow Bridge - I can't wait to see your beautiful, loving face and to hold you in my arms once more.

 

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Ruth
04/24/2008

I miss you my beautiful boy
Posted by Ruth Wheeler on 04/24/2008
I smell your favorite chair and I am not as playful right now because I miss you my brother. I loved you so much even though I know I liked to boss you around, you were my strength.
Posted by Josie Wheeler on 04/24/2008
Ruth and Craig,

I'm so sorry to hear about your sweet Jack. It's so unfair when one we love is taken before their time. How lucky we are to be loved by a dog.
Posted by Eileen on 04/24/2008
Ruthie and Craig,

Our heart goes out to you - we know how it feels to lose one of your best friends with no warning. Hug Josie, and hug her again... give her extra treats and the first time she does something she shouldn't - let it go.
Posted by Tracy and Pat on 04/28/2008
Dearest Ruthi & Craig,
It was tragic to know that Jack had passed. When I first met Jack, I just wanted to love on him. We usually got along except for one incident, but we forgave each other. I will miss him dearly. I pray that you will find peace during this solemn time. In loving memory!
Posted by Michele on 04/28/2008
Dear Ruthie, Craig & Leonard,

I am so sorry for the lose of your sweet little Jack. I know how attached we are to our dogs. They are our little hairy children. You will never forget him and the wonderful time you had together. My thoughts are with you guys.
Posted by Pam on 04/29/2008
Ruth, Craig, Leonard and Josie,

I am so sorry for the loss of Jack. The memorial is beautiful, but darn it, it made me cry! I know how much more than just a pet he was. He will be missed. He was given a great life by joining your family. Just think about the joy you gave him and he gave you. That is truly a blessing.
Posted by Gerri & Family on 04/29/2008
Ruth, Craig, Leonard and Josie,

I am so sorry for the loss of Jack. The memorial is beautiful, but darn it, it made me cry! I know how much more than just a pet he was. He will be missed. He was given a great life by joining your family. Just think about the joy you gave him and he gave you. That is truly a blessing.
Posted by Gerri & Family on 04/29/2008
The Wheelers,

Our hearts and thoughts are with you with the loss of Jack. He was such a loving member of your family.
Posted by Kent, Melanie and Stefan on 04/29/2008
Dear Ruth, Craig, Leonard and Josie,

I am crying knowing about your loss and reading about the experience you went through. It is so hard loving a dog, because they are with us for only a short time. You were blessed, as was Jack, for having such a wonderful family. He'll be waiting for you in the clearing at the end of the path. One day you will be together again. With love,
Posted by Laura and Craig on 04/29/2008
Dear Craig, Ruth, Leonard & Josie,

We were so sorry to hear about your loss. When we adopt a pet they become part of our family. What a blessed life Jack had with a beautiful family. I know you will truly miss his warmth and comfort, but know that he is now in a beautiful place waiting to waig his tail for you again someday!

All our love, & God Bless, Brian & Jamie
Posted by Jamie Coley on 05/06/2008
There will only be one Jack, I just miss him God has taught me to appreciate the time we have not the time we did not. He was my "doggy soulmate" I miss you Jack.
Posted by Daddy on 05/06/2008